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Turkey Day 2014

I am thankful for this bit of sunshine here on Thansgiving morning.  See how it works?
I am thankful for this bit of sunshine here on Thansgiving morning. See how it works?

 

It’s Thanksgiving today, a truly American holiday.  It occurred to me yesterday as I was Skyping with Gracie in London that maybe folks outside of the States needed a little tutorial regarding this day and its significance, so here it goes.

“To speak gratitude is courteous and pleasant, to enact gratitude is generous and noble, but to live gratitude is to touch Heaven.”  ~  Johannes A. Gaertner.

A lot of our history is lost in the mists so time so my rendition of this story rests largely on the the common generic elementary school model which is basically what we all cling to dispite all the attempts to make the record straight.  This all took place in the seventeenth century on the East Coast of the US in the area of Plymouth Rock, Massachusetts.  So, the story goes that the European folk, who are called Pilgrims (yes,Pilgrims) came here largely on faith to set up a new life free from religious persecution.  Maybe they were short on practical knowledge and survival skills.  Due to the help of the Native Americans the Pilgrims made it through their first year and here they were at harvest time.  Things were so abundant and joyful that they decided that a big dinner party was in order so they invited the local tribe members who helped make their survival possible.

And this thanksgiving meal at harvest time with definite types of foods that the new environs provided is the basis for what we do on the fourth Thursday of the month of November.  Also, included is the gratefulness that we all owe God for the bounty of Mother Nature.  Also included is the idea that we invite family and friends and new folks and strangers so that everyone has somewhere to go and everyone gets fed.  We try our best to make that happen and it goes to the extreme that American service members will be served hot (or semi hot turkey) on the battlefield or in the MON ( Middle of Nowhere) or wherever on this day.

Because Gracie in London, who is a native of Australia, had never tasted some of these foods I will run through the menu.  Thanksgiving wouldn’t be complete without these although there might be a variation or substitute in an emergency.

First of all the centerpiece is turkey which is generally a farm raised bird now but the original was the wild turkey which there are still plenty of and may grace the table of a hunting family.  Think about it being a giant chicken but with a chicken weighing a few pounds and a turkey weighing ten times that.  It is generally brought to the table whole in all its golden brown roasted glory and carved there.  White meat comes off the breast which goes to the white meat people and the dark meat coming off the legs goes to the dark meat people.  Yea, Americans either are one or the other.

Cooked inside the body cavity of the turkey in the oven is the mysterious stuff called stuffing.  It is little cubes of bread with onion and celery and herbs. Everyone’s different family has a old family recipe that reflects their separate traditions and that they cling to no matter what.  Rebecca makes one based on corn bread which reflects her Southern upbringing.  It is spooned out of the bird on the table when the bird is served.  Sometimes it is baked separately in a pan to shorten the cooking time of the turkey.  But in the old days it was “stuffed” into the bird.

So, next are the mashed potatoes (white potato generally), smooth and creamy served with a brown gravy made from the drippings of the roasting bird.  Fancy gravy would have giblets in it which is the cooked and diced heart, liver and gizzard.  This follows the “waste not want not” rule.  Next to that is cranberry sauce which is a tart dark red sauce or perhaps relish made from this particular swamp berry.    Then there will be a veggie, perhaps green beans or Brussells sprouts, generally something green.  Can you visualize the whole plate with the different colors?

Then, another must is the dessert of pumpkin pie.  A pumpkin is a squash that grows on a vine in the garden.  It is big and orange.  So the pie is made by cooking the meat of the pumpkin and adding other things to make an orange custard and that goes onto a pie crust.  No top crust so you can see the great color of it easily.  It is usually served with a dollop of whipped cream on top.

There, I think that I did the thing justice.  I am a white meat guy by the way and Rebecca is a dark meat person so we balance out beautifully.  So, wherever you are, Happy Thansgiving To you and yours.  White meat loves, Felipe.

 

 

A Highly Sucessful Dilly Dally

 

The trail continues.
The trail continues.

 

Before I get started on that I want to put my walking schedule in here:

Mondays 0900-1000

Fridays 0900-1000

Sundays 1000-1100

This is here at the ranch.  Wear your boots.  Come walk and talk with me and whoever shows up.

 

My Rebecca belongs to a group called the Vashon Free Range Folk Choir.  And last evening they were singing as part of a multi faith gratitude service.  I got roped into going to the service but it was lively and just what I needed to start getting out of my doldrums with the death of Sture.  So somehow Rebecca and I wound up going along with a small group afterward to one of the local restaurants for a drink.

So, beside the two of us there was a dad of one of my archery students, the local head guy with the Sufis, the abbot of the Zen Center and the abbot of the Russian Orthodox Monastary.  Also included were two folks that I really wanted to touch base with who are the parents of a young man that recently took his own life.  What a crew!  What a dilly dally!  It was extremely jovial and informative.  I am so glad that I was there.  It was really high and the parents said that it was the first time that they had smiled since the death of their son.  It is hard to see how that all worked but it did beautifully.

So yea, the trail goes on, the surprises continue and the dilly dallys are there for the taking.  Amazing.  Dilly Dally love to you, Felipe.

 

Sture and Company

Sture and  Phil, Eastern Washington hunt.
Sture and Phil, Eastern Washington hunt.

 

Phil with Sture and Trigve at camp, Western Washington.
Phil with Sture and Trigve at camp, Western Washington.

 

Sture and Phil, grouse hunt.
Sture and Phil, grouse hunt.

 

Sture and Phil, churkar hunt.
Sture and Phil, churkar hunt.

 

Sture and Tryge, Western Washington.
Sture and Tryge, Western Washington.

 

Sture and Trygve.
Sture and Trygve.

 

Sture and Trygve, pulling something apart.
Sture and Trygve, pulling something apart.

 

Sture and Trygve, ever competing.
Sture and Trygve, ever competing.

 

The boys , middle of nowhere.
The boys , middle of nowhere.

 

 

Clam digging, Vashon Island.
Clam digging, Vashon Island.

 

 

The boys on the beach, Vashon Island.
The boys on the beach, Vashon Island.

 

Sture being cleaned up after rolling in deer poop.
Sture being cleaned up after rolling in deer poop.

 

My buddy Steve with the guys.
My buddy Steve with the guys.

 

Ice cream for everyone!
Ice cream for everyone!

 

Earlier in the day that  Sture took off.
Earlier in the day that
Sture took off.

Found My Santa Hat

 

Sture next to the rock pile at Phil's Camino.
Sture next to the rock pile at Phil’s Camino.

I know that it is a little early but I just doned my really cool camo Santa hat that one of my archery students gave me.  Need something to cheer me up at the moment.  Sture being gone is leaving a pretty big hole in our winter evening.  Well, it feels like winter.

So, we are all cleaned up after the big reunion weekend.  The pilgrims have come and gone.  They travel so lightly and well that they don’t really leave much of a footprint.

Watching the flames dance in the wood stove and thinking about your warm hearts scattered around the world.  Join me, won’t you.  I am going to propose a toast to the prince of dogs: Thank you Sture for your tremendous heart, love you, may we all be as robust as you.

Love, Felipe.

He Partied With Us And At A Certain Point Got Up And Left

Sure with baguette, ever wanting to help.
Sture with baguette, ever wanting to help.

 

I am going to be shy a post over the last few days but it has been super busy and every nook and cranny of our time seemed to be filled.  We got to the Island on Saturday after being with Sister Joyce and we spent the rest of the afternoon capturing a couple of hours on the Camino here at the ranch.  And the weather, although stormy and rainy in the morning gave us those hours with beautiful sunshine.

Then yesterday after church we were busy again with sometimes two cameras going at once to get everything in the remaining hours.  A little crazy at times but it was a great opportunity as the weather cooperated again which around here and in this time of year is a miracle.  So the afternoon progressed to the evening and people arrived to be at the potluck.   And we were still filming into that and doing a last minute interview with Dr. Zucker and me and Annie and me.  And it seemed like the super heavy topics were there at the end.  And finally it appeared like we were talked out and we could go eat and relax.

Dinner was great as we had provided chicken and Italian sausages cooked by our dear chef friend Stephen.  And Rick and Carolyn had made paella and Kelly a chocolate cake and there were salads galore.  So it is dark by now and our son Wiley has the bonfire going full bore and finally everyone is having a drink and getting getting in the mood.

So this whole time Sture our beloved dog who has had end of life type issues with his health was cruising through the crowd looking for leftovers just like normal.  He is next to Rebecca and myself and he just keels over and was gone in a minute, like dead in a very short minute. Yea, right there so quick and easy right with us and right in the midst of the the whole gathering.  Amazing.

We carried him out on a quilt made by my grandmother and put him in the back of my truck were he loved to ride.  We laughed and we cried.

Love you all, Felipe.

Reunion!!!!!

 

 

The film crew has landed here on Vashon Island.  They are at Kelly’s albergue for the night.  They had dinner there last night and a big old dilly dally happened afterward.  Rick and Carolyn and Rebecca and myself were there.  What a great bunch of people.  We were a few short of a cosmic quorum but we had a great time anyway.

We were there although recalling there is sometimes difficult.
We were there although recalling there is sometimes difficult.

 

Annie O’ Neil will be joining our merry band and we will descend on Sister Joyce’s office in Seattle for a film shoot later this morning.  All good.  Spent two hours with Sister Joyce and then back to Vashon to film outside along the Camino in an unexpected sunbreak.

We had a big dinner with all of us at our place and talked and laughed till we couldn’t anymore.  Then off to bed and another day awaiting.  Really hard to write this post when ther is so much going on but of course that is the way it was in Spain.  Love, Felipe.

 

TGIF/Mary Margaret#1

 

Our Mary Margaret.
Our Mary Margaret.

Date: November 16, 2014 at 9:18:46 AM PST

To: Phil Volker <[email protected]>
Subject: A Friday tale
As we were leaving Castrojeriz at about 7 a.m. on a Monday morning, facing the very steep mountain path ahead, I told my companions to go ahead because I wanted to pop into the large church we were passing in order to ask for extra strength. Alas, as so often in the smaller towns, the church was locked until noon Mass. I remarked with irony that despite my motivation for the Camino being religious, I was feeling quite spiritually ‘dry’ as we had also arrived too late for Sunday Mass the day before. Shoot, I said, I spend more time in church back home in Long Beach than I have here on the Camino!

Trudging along, up and up, sweating and breathless, everyone passing me, I finally reached the top and took the requisite selfies. Companions long gone, I started down the dusty descent alone and suddenly spotted…a monk ahead of me! Was it a mirage? I sped up and greeted him with ‘Buen Camino’ and he smiled and replied but said he was Polski and we discovered that my Polish and Russian were inadequate and he didn’t know any English, French, German or Hungarian so we couldn’t communicate.

He was pulling his backpack in a little cart behind him and indicated that his feet (in worn leather street shoes) were in very bad shape so he couldn’t wear it on his back. I wanted to help him or at least distract him, so I remembered a Polish Christmas carol that I sang every year in a concert at the Abbey Liguge in France. I sang Mizerna Cicha – he grinned ear to ear and sang along and our steps were much lighter as we realized how funny it was to be singing a Christmas song in August in Spain.

We soon reached the lovely Hospital San Nicolas and stopped to rest with dozens of others. Among them was a Polish man who spoke English and had a conversation with my monk. The man came to me and said, ‘Mary, Brother Angelo says to tell you ‘Different tongues, same heart.’’ Then Brother Angelo came up, gripped my head and blessed me in nomine Patris et Filii et Spiritus Sancti.

And I said to God, ‘You sure work fast, Lord!’

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Love,

Mary Margaret
“My only regret in life is that I did not drink more Champagne.” last words of John Maynard Keynes, English economist

 

Mustang Sally

No Mustang Sally but the Princess of Viana.
No Mustang Sally but the Princess of Viana.

 

Rebecca and I have a friend that is in a Blues Brothers cover band and is the Elwood character.  It is a great act and the music is great and I play the heck out of  the CD driving around in my pickup.  So when the song Mustang Sally comes on I’m loving it and Anamaria, the Princiss of Viana, comes to mind.  And I say to myself that maybe, maybe not.  Could she be Mustang Sally?

Well, my question was answered yesterday.  I, on impulse, FaceTimed her at a time when I thought that she should be done with work.  But she was there by her computer and said sorry still working and said that she will call me after work.  So what happens but we wind up FaceTiming as we are cruising on the freeways through Miami on the way to the gym.  So, I have never actually seen this happen before much less imagined it with my twentieth century brain.  But here we are multitasking through the city and Anamaria is giving me a detailed tour of the sights by pointing the phone out the window.   This building is this and this building is that.  So, yea, at a certain point I had to bail out.  I just had to say to her that I loved her but this was making me way too nervous and I had to go.  “Back it down a little bit child!” as the lyrics go.

It’s a great story but way too undignified for the Princess of Viana, don’t you think?  I made that all up.  But, but, there is big Princess news.  She was accepted in a Masters program at a university in Madrid for marketing and will be moving there for a year!  Yea, and she said that she could walk some more Camino.  Awesome thought!

So all’s well that ends well and another day on the trail for all of us.  Well, we are coming into the dock and I have to wrap it up for the day.  Love you all to the Mustag Sally max, Felipe.

 

Wednesday Morning

Everything in the Universe is going according to plan.  Wow, how is that for starters.  Sometimes this stuff just jumps out, thank you Holy Spirit.

This weekend the Rebecca, Jessica and Todd of the infamous film crew will be here.  And Annie and Maggie who have been tirelessly working on the “Walking the Camino” documentary film will be here.  Annie has been producing my documentary film which is in the construction stages, all good, with St. James helping Annie at the helm.

Sunday afternoon and evening  we are having a Camino party and film shoot.  If you are a local reader of this blog and are being drawn like a moth to the flame on this please come.  But call first please so we know about numbers.  Please don’t be shy.  So, that is here at our place on Wax Orchards Rd.  1400-1600 walking,

Another part of the big plan.
Another part of the big plan.

1600-1800 potluck and 1800 on a bonfire gathering.  Bundle up as we will be outdoors.  We do have shelters, tables and Coleman lanterns.

Yea, and our crisis with our beloved dog Sture has been eased through meds and procedures.  But his basic bad problems remain so we are happy that perhaps we will have a few more weeks with him.  This having a problem come up just before the film crew comes is reminiscent of me having to have a root canal two days before we flew out to Spain in July.  But all part of the big plan I know.

Have to go, love you all, Felipe.

 

Stretch Of Bad Road

A late Fall pic taken down the road from our place on Vashon.
A late Fall pic taken down the road from our place on Vashon.

 

My trail is rough right now.  I’m sitting in the comfy chair at Swedish Hospital getting my big two week chemo treatment.  It’s not what you would call fun but that is not what is bothering me right now.  I think that I mentioned that our beloved dog Sture was sick and that was bad enough but now we know that it is a terminal situation.  He is suffering from liver failure and we need to put him down.  So, we are having a family meeting tonight when I get back to make a plan.

So, if you will forgive me, I think that I will sign off for today.  I am totally distracted and need to attend to the situation.  Tomorrow, being another day I will try again.  There is a reason for this to occur right now so maybe that will become apparent.  Thanks, Love, Felipe.