Ryck’s Ridiculously Good Friday Post

I am so honored to write this Blog post on behalf of Phil for the Friday BC, Caminoheads post…One day as I walked through my local park, “Fish Park” in Poulsbo, WA, I saw on the ground, nestled next to some wet, Washington State autumn tree leaves, a cover of an old newspaper. The cover of the old “North Kitsap Herald” had a small picture of a guy on it with a ball cap and he was walking around a path. The title of the picture said, “Vashon Island man walks his own Camino”. I knew what the Camino was as I saw the movie, “The Way”, like so many of us pilgrims have. This was sometime in 2015. I had only moved to Poulsbo some 2 years earlier as it was my last duty station in the Navy before I retired in 2017. When I saw “The Way”, I knew that I would walk the Camino when I retired from the Navy. It finally happened in the summer of 2017. When I walked, a man named Steve Watkins began to follow me on Facebook. We became good Facebook, Camino chums. One day Steve messaged me to inform me he was coming to Seattle to visit “Phil’s Camino”. He invited me to meet Phil at Swedish Institute in Seattle. It was then it dawned on me that Phil was the guy from the old newspaper on the ground in the middle of the park in Poulsbo I had read about some 3 years prior. When I arrived with Steve Watkins to Swedish to meet Phil, I expected to see someone looking like perhaps they just got a chemo treatment. Then when Phil walked out, that is not what I saw. I saw a man that instantly reminded me of my Grandfather who had passed in 2009. He had the same demeanor, same mannerisms. Phil has a way of bringing a certain energy into the room unlike no other person I have met. Later on after meeting Phil, I went to his house and walked the path I originally read about on that old, faded newspaper I saw on the ground at the park. As I walked with Phil, I realized that I felt like I was at home in his yard, on his path. I love his wife Rebecca as dearly, such a straight shooter that lady, I couldn’t have loved it any better. I knew then as I know now that all of us here on this blog or at the Veranda, or that go to Raven Ranch, we are all a part of something much bigger than the Camino itself. The Camino was merely the conduit that brought Phil to us, and us to him. The energy that comes from these gatherings, these conversations are truly magical to me. To us. In the Navy, if you make Chief Petty Officer, the saying is, “The Anchors pick you, you do not pick the anchors”. The anchors are the symbol of the rank of the Chief. I always felt as if the Camino either calls to you or it doesn’t. The Camino calls to you, you do not pick the Camino. Certain energies attract certain people. How lucky are we all to have that, whatever it is, attract us all together from many different backgrounds and areas of the world. I know, matter of fact, that what is happening at Phil’s house, on Phil’s Camino is something that we will always reflect on for the rest of our lives. Something we will all know we were so fortunate to have been a part of. Henry Ford once said, “When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it….” With Phil, I feel that is exactly what he does with each chemo treatment. He flies against the wind and every time he does this and he fights back, we are all inspired. We all fly with him. We fly with him on this blog and on his Camino. We are all flying with you, Phil. Please know that.
Flying loves for Phil,
Ryck Thompson – Puget Sound, WA. Bureau Chief.

5 thoughts on “Ryck’s Ridiculously Good Friday Post”

  1. Bravo!!!! So good. So true blue. My heart is full. Let us know when you’re on the island.
    Dana

  2. I’m looking forward to meeting you next year, Ryck. You sure captured the man and the neighborhood spirit.

    Thank you for it all! Buen Camino!

  3. Dear Ryck,

    I am in Buenos Aires airport, reading your post as I was in the line to board a plane to Warsaw, Poland for a work meeting and my eyes went teary to make a man next to me asked if I was ok… I replied saying that I was moved by the words of a “friend” wrote about another “friend in common”…

    I love how you describe Phil… it is pretty amazing that in our own way, we see the same man… and you have put in the most eloquent way what we are part of… sometimes we say “there is something bigger going on here” or “it is not casual that we are here”.. but you put very nice words to that… and I am touched!

    My flight is about to depart… Somehow, I can also sign off today saying: Flying loves,
    Cris

  4. Hi Ryck,
    That is one incredible story about two exceptionally incredible people.

    A multitude of THANKS for sharing.

    Looking Forward.

    C.C.B.C. William.

  5. Ryck, this is fantastic. Thank you! Sometimes people ask me how to convince their friend/spouse/parent/child to walk the Camino with them. Stop, I say! That would be impossible! You must be chosen by the Camino to walk, not ordered by a friend or family member. Just. Wouldn’t. Work. I also really appreciate hearing that the airplane has to fly AGAINST the wind. Thank you. I needed that. Here’s to flying against the wind together. With Phil. With each other. Big loves to everyone.

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